Activities Before and After the Wedding

Given that it very rarely happens that all of the Dash/Hawk kids get together, we should think about what else we can do with the occasion. For sure on the Friday before the wedding, we (all the wedding guests who have to travel to get to the event, which is a lot of them) will go out to eat somewhere that can accomodate all of us. What about after the wedding, are people planning on staying around for a few days? We might postpone our honeymoon a bit if so. Any ideas for what we can all do? Vanessa recommended white water rafting down the Ohio Pyle or something like that. Or is that too much for you old-timers?